One of the best blessings given is the love of a woman. The true love of a woman is a never-ending love–with a million sparks of opportunities. A woman full of love will do anything in her power to make her love as full as the moon. A love sweeter than honey, and a woman with a heart of gold is almost as rare as a four-leaf clover. The woman who loves you like Jesus is a rare kind of love, and should not be taken lightly. This is not a love to be sought after, but if you found it sooner rather than later–consider yourself blessed.
A true holy woman can be the rescue you never knew you needed. A woman who brings you closer to Jesus while loving you, all the same, will fill your life with the uttermost joy. You will watch a woman learn to love you more and more each day, yet it will seem completely natural to her. She will love you unconditionally and may hug you a little tighter some days just because she needed it. You will feel on top of a mountain when she meets you at the door after a long day. A love as warm and soft as a freshly baked cookie is not something to indulge completely into, but a continuous process of growing. “Therefore, we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day” 2 Corinthians 4:16.
This is the woman who will blush at a corny joke no matter her age, yet will give you a list of chores the next day. Learn how to speak her love language as Dr. Gary Chapman explained it best. She will be gentle hearted with a kind soul and you must treat her delicately. Some days you may not understand everything she is crying about or why she is mad, but that is when you hold her tight and love her anyway. A God evolved relationship will not possess the same selfishness as getting angry at her; staying focused on God is the important glue to your relationship puzzle.
Your first year together may consist of burnt dinners followed by her tears, but that is when you realize her effort and eat the food anyway. The second year will most likely try to gain the upper-hand by bogging your minds down with stress. Money, bills, material things–no item nor worldly possession is more important than your love for one another. “Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth,” Colossians 3:2. By the time the third-year rolls around you both will need to replenish your love with a weekend away together. If you both find yourselves happier together after the trip away then you succeeded. This weekend away does not equal the pure bliss you will feel after leaving church on a Sunday morning, but it will help you spend some quality time together. Once the calendar marks four years, you will begin to settle yourselves and start thinking about what kind of future you want together. The fourth year is not meant to accomplish all the planned things in this exact year, but just simply planning. Do not fear what the future of your love together holds. “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made in perfect love,” according to 1 John 4:18. As long as you both keep your relationship full of faith in God, everything will work out immeasurably.
A woman who loves you like Jesus is going to stand by you through some of the most difficult times in your life, so cherish her dearly. This will be the same woman you will come home to with dogs barking and kids crying, yet your mind will be at ease knowing how completely surrounded by love you will feel. “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Glory to God